LIFE: To stress or to smile?

From my previous entry, I’d have talked about the academic result. For sure, everyone is talking about their performance now. Me too. When I think back, why do us need to know about others? It’s not about others, it’s about us. You know what, yourself is your biggest challenge after all. You don’t need to compete with others, challenge your past.

If your result is better than before then you’re succeed. It’s not when yours is better than the others. It’s when you is better than the previous you. If you don’t succeed today, it’s because you didn’t complete the challenge.

It will ends with a happy ending, if it doesn’t, so it’s not the ending – Bill.

When knowing others are better than yours, it creates a tension there. Then, you’ll start blaming things; start to regret things and so on. Hey you, blaming and regretting will never let loose the tension but create another level of it. Why don’t you smile, let off the tension and move forward. You might not be the winner of today’s challenge, but don’t be a loser. A loser is the one who give up things. Give up means letting you to be controlled by life. You’re the one who needs to control the life. I’m not asking you to stop believing in God. It’s for you to choose the right path. Motivate yourself. Don’t waits for others to laugh at you, until that you’ll start to move on. You don’t need others’ laughs, laugh at yourself, smile and kick the PAST out!

You know what, “Things happen”. I smiled when I got my result yesterday because I passed all the papers including the papers that I didn’t finish answered. One of the papers was my favorite subject; I answered all the questions except for one ‘10 marks’ question. I missed the question because I didn’t check my answer booklets. I didn’t notice it until the night after the test. I was stupid at that time, to cry over the thing. Then I realized one thing at that moment, I need to check everything that I’ve done. It makes me a better me now. Everything happens for a reason. The reason is you.

I write because I care.

LIFE: If you never meet MR. SADNESS, you’ll never meet MRS. HAPPINESS, because they’re always together.

Last night was a long night. Almost all of the students were waiting for the examination slip to be sent to their personal e-mail address, including me. It was nerve-wrecking! Only then I knew how Lenka felt when her heart skipped a beat. After the slip was mailed, I felt, “I think I shouldn’t open it or maybe later”. Stupid, wasn’t me? Gah! My mind was saying “NOOOOOO!”, but my finger clicked, “Heyyeeaaahhhh!” LMAO.

I took a long moment without any body gesture or any word or any blink of my beautiful eyes. LOL. I was numbed! I couldn’t think of anything else except for breathing. The result was a SHOCK! I didn’t expect it to be beyond my expectations. I was happy for it. It wasn’t that good good and it wasn’t that bad bad. Whatever it was, it was. It’s done! You can’t change anything even crying blood out. That’s the reason why we have to learn TENSES. It’s to show the difference of any action in a time line, it’s; past, present or future. My English teacher taught me about it since I was in primary school. She taught me a lot more than just a time line. She taught me to stay in a real time, look back and move on. She never taught me to GO BACK.

One of my best buddies was upset with her result. She cried. Her result was GOOD, but she expected GREAT. Then I told her to take whatever it is, because it is what it is. Before this she had has GREAT for such a long time. Life is cycling. When you are at the top, later on, sooner or later, you’ll be at the bottom. I’m not asking you to wait for another cycle. You need to cycle the life. Nothing is happening unless you create one.

How to make it happens? It’s easy. Whip the tears. Dream to be success. Wake up. Do it.

I know saying is easier than to feel the hard times in the situation. I’ve been there. I’ve felt it. I am here to share the same old story of mine. My mom always teaches me one littlest thing that you don’t even bother it, “At least we try”. Trying is the key of success. Trying doesn’t mean success at the first attempt. It costs you times, efforts, patience, tears and changes. Changes in you, it means the process of maturing. Not saying that maturing in the state of age, but in a way of thinking. Think about it. I write because I care

ROFL: Funny messages.

Honestly, I’m not a person who loves to text. For me it such a wasting activity (*hope no one will attack me after I’m saying this*). I prefer to make phone calls  other than text-ing. Actually, I’m the one who talks with 100% full of emotions. LOL. Seriously, I like to exaggerate my emotions. It’s automatic without a stop button! So, when I want to tell my girls about funny things that happened to me through texts, I just don’t satisfy. WHY? The texts are all DELIVERED but my emotions aren’t 100% delivered! Sometimes, words can speak better. Yeah! For a person like me, I prefer to text when my emotion is not stable, because when I get mad, all bad words are flying smooth from my mouth and landing safely on your eardrum. So I better shut before I get SLAPS by others!

Sometimes, messaging can create funny dialogues. Here are some for you guys to take a moment and laugh! Take time to smile, folks! Happy reading

NOVEMBER: It’s coming!

It’s NOVEMBER! 2011 is almost at the end. Two more months and 2011 is done! I used to be very happy when November comes. When November’s coming, it brings along a lot of holidays. Now, things change. When it’s coming, it means I’m out. The semester break’s over! No wonder I’m being too lazy these days. I need to prepare myself for leaving (*SAD BACKGROUND MUSIC*), packing my belongings to go back to hostel and my most laziness’ vote goes to “GOING BACK TO STUDY”. Dang it. I hate it.

Before all the tensions come, I guess I better go on with my daily lazy routine here at home because I’m sure I’ll miss it. Just chilling. Let it be like it should be, right? My teacher said to me and I’ll remember it forever, “We never be challenged beyond our limits”. It just taking some times and efforts to face some challenges. It’s a life’s lesson. We growing up! Getting older and senile. LOL.

SMILE: Cure of everything.

FORGIVE & FORGET: Is it that simple?

Hey you, yes, you! Forgive and forget it.

I CAN say that with ease as easy as I type it. When comes into certain situations that force you to do it. It almost CAN’T. I know how it feels. It’s hard. It’s not just about LOVE LIFE. It considers the environment around you. Families, friends, studies, organizations, workplaces and more. It’s about EVERYTHING in your LIFE. I’ve been in the story and I said;

“I can forgive and forget but I don’t have any desire to see you again, to build up friendship or any ship, hmm (*BLUR*), I mean just anything involving you in my future life. It’s not that I hate you that much, I just need times”.

Then I come with one solid conclusion. Forgetting and forgiving are the nicest things that one can do to his awful pasts. I’m not asking you to ACT the faked nice, but those are the best treatments for HEALING the pains. We don’t have to run away from it. Deal with it. Even how far you’ve run, but the pasts are always after you. The farther you run the worse you’ll feel. The more time you spend to deal with it, the more tension you’ll become. Make it done by second. Then, start a new beginning. As the old quotes say;

The one that can stop you from crying is the one that make you cries.

It’s true, fellas. I guess you’ll agree with me too. The oldies always right because they had enough. Enough of everything. Everything from their lives’ experiences. So fellas, listen to your parents.

Hey dude, be a big guy. Stop doing unnecessary things. It doesn’t bring any goods for you, you might get hatred and be called by bad names from hurtles’ hearts and you, sis, be a woman. Treat others like how you treat your heart. You a woman, dear, you should be very sensitive to what other women’s feel. You know that you’ll feel the same if that thing happens to you in future. If that have had happened to you in past, be more mature. Say it to others; makes others feel it; let them know about that; just share the stories, not by pissing them off because of your histories.

This is why I’m creating a space here. It’s to deliver the lessons and thoughts that I’ve experienced throughout my journey of living. I’m not praying it to happen in yours. Just for your sticky notes when the time comes. Find my post. Read it. It might help because I write this when I’m in the scene. I write because I care. I share the world.

P/s: Be nice to people because you’ll get it back then, sooner or later. Life is fair. Don’t press your luck today.

LOVE: All about it.

I’m not good about LOVE, but I LOVE LOVE, who doesn’t? I love to love, I love to be loved, and I love loving. Ladies, these quotes are all for you guys. Don’t be stupid because of LOVE. Let the quotes explain it.

Love doesn’t always a happy moment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

It has been so long.

Yeah. It has been such a long time since the first time I changed my theme for the blog. Not saying that I don’t like the previous theme (Choco), I just want to have a new one. Something clean, easy, attractive and of course FABULOUS.  LOL. I’ve choose lots, lots, lots, lots of them. And now, it ends to this one. Theme called MOTION. Just that, I customized the background. Letting it differs from the other users. If you notice that, I’ve been using the same background even how many times I change my blog’s theme. It has story there. Just keep it as a secret. Shh…

I choose this theme because it looks clean, attractive and matched with the customized background there. Then, I choose black, so that the pictures featured in every each of my posts will standout as the background is dark. It’s easy to use. It’s simple. IT’S SIMPLE, yes, it sure implies that I am not good in complex things. But, when comes to mind, I create this blog to enjoy writing and reading, not to stress out to see complicated things. What for if I don’t know how to set my own space right? It might looks so simple for some of readers or bloggers out there, or you guys might not agree with me, I accept any opinions and any criticisms from you guys, because this is me. I like it. I love it. So, I just go with it. Again, guys, be yourself.

I hope you guys will like it too, if possible love it Keep following my blog, fellas!

P/S: I just love babies so much. They are adorable. Cute. Cute. Cute. And Cute! LOL

FASHION: UGG Boots.

UGG BOOTS have been bla bla bla… For me, talking about it just a fact. The reality is, I WANT THEM!! No money, no UGG’s! Let’s see some of them. Ladies, window shopping again. *SIGH*

It varies from colours, sizes, patterns and all can have it!

That’s all folks!

LOL: Start the day with laughs.

Morning fellas! Start Monday with laughs. I just love babies! Let’s see their cute giggles!

Done with the giggles, now guys, let’s LOL!

So buddies, there is always a lesson in my post. Here it’s;

Well then, HAPPY MONDAY!