There is one guy who I knew years ago. I’m not getting along with him so well recently. So, I decided to keep a distance between us. It’s not that I hate him that much, it’s just that, he did not pushing himself to make some changes in his attitude. I’m not saying that I’m looking for perfection but I’m looking for a person who I comfortable to hang out with. Then he said to me, “If you really want to be with me, you’ll always be beside me, pushing me to the limits and support me in every aspect”. I was shocked with his statement because for me, the choice is in you. It comes from you. If you really want to change and be better, you’ll do the hardest you can to accomplish it.
I know, some people need to be supported and be beside all the time, but I’ve given you truckloads of supports, times, patience and chances. Nothing happens. I’m not asking you to give something in return, but I just want to see the performance of your promises. It means, to show what you say. If you can’t keep your promises, just don’t say any. It’s simple, it just you that complicate the small thing. I’ve given you many chances before and I can give more if I want to. I can give as many chances as you want, but the thing is, until when? I can keep myself hurt, I can waste my time on you and I can be as patient as it has to be, but the question is, until when? Don’t let me repeat the same thing. Be a man. You have grown up, you should be more mature in dealing with such things. Think about it.
